
On my way home from Mass this morning we were met by an oncoming funeral cortege where those who knew and loved the deceased followed the hearse on foot. It is not unusual in Ireland to see this wonderful display of love, but it is less likely to meet it in the urban areas of the country. On the opposite side of the road, cars slowed down as they approached the cortege and eventually stopped until the Hearse passed by. Only then did they return to motion. I was very moved by this as it reminded me of my days in Athlone where this was a regular occurance. More over than not, during a visit to Athlone we would bet met by a funeral slowly winding it way towards the Parish Church. During the ordinary time of our existance which was spent in Dublin, this was not so much a custom.
I was only too delighted to be able to slow and stop and as the hearse passed by to bless myself and utter the prayer "Eternal rest grant unto this deceased, O Lord and may perpetual light shine upon them." Simple but profound. I can only imagine that I was seen making the sign of the cross by those in the funeral cortege and just perhaps it brought one a comfort to see a sign of respect being offered by one who had no idea of who the deceased was. Such a little gesture that speaks so much. To see a line of cars come to a stop and then individually wait for the passing by was very profound indeed and revealed to me just how deep the little Catholic traditions are ingrained in the Irish psyche.
As I pulled away and gained speed, I began to think of all the little things we could be doing as Catholics that unite us to Heaven for but a brief moment in the course of a busy day and had a quick mental list made up of what I do by myself or with my wife and kids in public or at home that is exclusively a Catholic tradition. Ok so here is my list:
1. We use Holy Water regularly and have a font by the front door.
2. We say Grace before meals as a family at dinner time.
3. We pause for prayer at the striking of the Angelus, usually at 6pm.
4. We bless ourselves when passing a Catholic Church.
5. We bless ourselves when passing a graveyard and pray for the enternal rest of those interred there and for all the faithful departed.
6. We observe meatless Fridays.
7. There is an image of the Sacred Heart and a statur of Our Lady in our living room.
8. We have our annual blessed Palm branches scattered about the house over pictures and door frames.
9. We gather as a family and pray evening prayers for special occassions.
9. When in the Church we bow to the Altar and genuflect towards the Tabernacle.
10. Before we leave the Church we always visit the Altar of Our Lady and pray a Hail Mary.
Well I have to admit these are things I insist on with my kids and remind them to do regularly. I am very much aware than some may see these external manifestations as show and am always reminded of the parable of the tax collecter and the Pharisee. Then again I am reminded through the same parable, that it was God who saw the ultimate reason for the action and He knows our motivations. This is really all that matters. The love of God should always by the origin of all our tribute.
Anyway I am urging any of you who may stumble across this little meander to reconsider taking up some of our everyday Catholic traditions and practice them for the love of God. Remember that something that is repeated over 20 times becomes a habit. For other Catholic traditions visit
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Make a habit of showing your love for God in the little things that are exclusively ours!
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“The vow of celibacy is a matter of keeping one's word to Christ and the Church. a duty and a proof of the priest's inner maturity; it is the expression of his personal dignity.” Pope John Paul II